Tuesday, 8 January 2013

JANUARY 9


(Continued from yesterday) To others he would say, "Do you know, I want to cook you." Or "You are not sufficiently cooked as yet" meaning that he wanted to see in him a more perfect tenor of life, or a more sincere love of God. 
At other times he would ask one whom he had seen distracted during the sermon "tell me, are you suffering from a toothache?" "I? No". "Oh! I thought you had a bad toothache." Then he would explain to the boy that he meant that he chewed the word of God so badly, that it seemed that he did not like it and therefore did not derive any fruit from it. While at other times he would ask. "Poor fellow, have you a headache?" meaning thereby that he was capricious and disobedient. 
Another very common phrase of his was, "when will you start working miracles?" Sometimes he would address these phrases to someone who was rather thoughtful or to another whom he thought was thinking of something away from the subject or to one who whispered an aside to a companion when Don Bosco had a crowd around him. 
Don Bosco rarely, if ever, reprimanded severely, much less publicly. He never let any boy know that he had little esteem for him. And even those who knew that they did not merit any regard knew well that Don Bosco would never stigmatize them before the others. During the whole of his life he never humiliated anyone except in the case of public scandals when public reparation was necessary, hence the trust and confidence of almost all the boys in their superior. Thus his friendly advice never dishonored anyone but would bring about good and was lasting effects. As the Book of Proverbs says: 'As an ear-ring of gold and a bright pearl, so is he that reproveth the wise and the obedient ear' (Prov 25:12) 
These were some his most common requests:
-Will you as a nosegay for me in honor of our Lady study your lessons a little better?
-Jesus is waiting for you in the Church; he wants you to make a short visit
-Get rid of the habit of catching hold of others.
-Did you make a good confession?
-Why do you not go oftener to Holy Communion?
-Those companions!
-Be of good heart
-Ask Our Lady and she will help you.
-If you could see the state of your soul!
-Carry on as you are doing; Our Lady is pleased with you.
-Remember, God sees you.
-Death rather than sin.
-Become good in order that we may meet other in heaven.
-Make sure to make a good confession and you will be happy.
-Qui faciunt peccata hostes sunt animae suae (He who sins is an enemy of his soul).
-Recite five "Our Fathers" In honor of the wounds of Jesus in order to obtain the grace that none of those who die today will go to hell.
-Help me to save your soul.
-Cheer up! One day we shall be together with Our Lord.
-Ask Our Lady for the grace of never falling into sin
-Be obedient and you will be holy.
-Will you be able to sleep tranquilly tonight? 

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